Tips for Handling Comments When Nursing in Public

nursing in publicDespite the fact that breastfeeding a child is one of the most natural processes of being a mother, we still face comments from those who disapprove. When it comes from strangers, it’s obviously bothersome and uncalled for, but can easily be forgotten since you won’t see them again. Comments from family members or those close to you can definitely be tougher to deal with though. While the criticism may be unavoidable in a judgmental society, this certainly doesn’t mean you need to change the way you want to raise your child. Rather, here are some ways to handle the comments when it comes to nursing in public:

Stay Cool

When anyone criticizes us for any of our life choices, it’s human nature to want to retort with your defense. The main concept to keep in mind is that keeping your cool in this initial response is crucial to how the rest of the conversation will go. If you get angry and loud from the start, you’re only giving the opposition what they want. Start by taking a deep breath, and then proceeding with the following responses.


A lot of the time, those who criticize something are usually just ignorant or uninformed about the matter. This can especially be true with the topic of breastfeeding as it’s sometimes seen as a taboo, when actually it provides so many benefits to both mother and child. Educating them on the scientific facts that have proved how beneficial breastfeeding can be for your child’s health will hopefully open their eyes to the bigger picture. There’s absolutely nothing wrong about nursing your child, and anyone who is ill informed on the subject should know the facts before passing judgment. Staying informed and educated is your best defense against negative comments.

Express How You Feel

Having a heart-to-heart talk with someone who may be commenting on your nursing methods may go a long way. Those who judge you for your parenting choice need to know that their words and feelings truly hurt you and your child. Especially if your child is a little older, you may be surprised at their ability to understand what is being said and the difference between positive and negative comments. Your main goal is to put that person in your shoes, help them understand your desires as a mother, and get the comments to stop.

Authority Quoting

Many people, especially the type who are quick to comment on your parenting decisions, will refuse to listen unless there’s an authority figure involved. Quoting someone like your doctor, a nursing professional, or a legitimate organization can provide the authoritative opinion that this person needs to hear. Two useful pieces of information you can use is mentioning that both the World Health Organization and the American Academy of Pediatrics support and condone breastfeeding for children. In fact, they both recommend mothers to nurse their child for a minimum of a year, and thereafter for as long as mutually desired.

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